Fear

"The cave you fear to enter holds the treasure you seek" by Joseph Campbell.

"The only thing we have to fear is fear itself." by Franklin Roosevelt.

This two words of wisdom really get me into thinking. We use to be fear or afraid to do something that we really want to pursue. We want something so badly but never have the urge to do so.

It is because we are fear. Fear of failure, fear of being rejected, fear of disappointment, fear of losing something more valuable when we do it, fear and fear and more fear will be out of our mind before we do it. All the possibility of fear we kept thinking making us to be more afraid to do it.

But do we really have to do each and everything just because we desire it. Let's say you want to be rich and a friend of yours knew a way to get you to be rich but is an outlaw ways, because you're fear of the laws and regulation, so you never did it. Is that a bad or a good thing? In such situation for me is good to be fear if not your are gonna be ending up in jail.

How about relationship? Some people they admire someone too much but never dare to voice it out. As like this, that person just kept to him/herself as they don't wanna ruin the friendship if it is being rejected after saying everything. At least he/she knew that he/she will still have their best friend or can still be by her/his side whenever she/he need him/her. As i know is, happiness not necessarily to have them, staying by each other side is also a happiness. Seeing the other happy, I believe you will be happy too. Unlike some people with too much bravery, chase the girl or guy till wanna commit suicide, attempt to kill the person he/she loved, and etc. Too dramatic already can scare the person away. Not even a friend can be consider but to put thing worst is you wish you never meet such crazy admirer.

So, I guess being fear or afraid is nothing wrong right. So next time don't simply scold you're friend coward...okay.