Last day of May 2012

Today is the last day of May 2012. So fast the time past by. We all almost going to the month of June 2012. Is just a few hours from now.

Tomorrow is Hari Gawai Dayak, a Public Holiday for those working in Sarawak. Here people used to wish Gayu Guru Gerai Nyamai during this event to the Iban, Dayak and etc (mostly the native people which we called them Bumiputera of the land Sarawak). Gayu Guru Gerai Nyamai is just the similar meaning to Hari Gawai Dayak. This Hari Gawai festival is a symbol of celebration to the Harvest Festival in Sarawak (if i am not wrong :D )

So, as the Public holiday fall on tomorrow the 1st (Saturday) and 2nd (Sunday) June of 2012, the authorities gave us another replacement holiday on the 4th June (Monday) since the Sunday is a weekends. Cool, huh!!...hehe...so i am having a direct holiday from 1st till 4th June 2012.

That's all for today. Nothing much for now as i am very sleepy. Hot weather always makes my eyes lazy. Good night.

two weeks past

Is been a long time i didn't update my blog, is like 2 weeks already.

Ermm..i almost forget bout my blog as i'm so obsessed with Korean drama recently. Then i am so tired taking bus trip home since last week under heavy rain almost everyday. All this making me tired and i can sleep as early as 9pm, but still wake up at the same time as usual. Not earlier, no extra energy even i sleep earlier....is still the same me like the me when i sleep at 10pm.

Okay, not much to write for today as i m feeling sleepy now.

Tomorrow is the 30th of May 2012 is also a called Pesta Kaamatan for those Sabahan. The Sabah is going to have 2 days of public holiday starting tomorrow with 31st May. Happy Holiday to those Sabahan.

Good night, world. Zzzz

Happy Mother's Day

Today is Mother's Day for the year 2012. Mother's Day can be celebrate within this weekends either on Saturday or Sunday (tomorrow).

Well, we didn't celebrate it. Ermm, nothing much to say, as for me...Mother's Day is not a just a day for you to show loved by sending gifts and a dinner treat to your mother on today only. It should be showed on each and everyday your caring, appreciation and obedient towards her. For her taking cared to you since you are in her womb, on the night you were sick how she stay awake to make sure you take your medicine on time and etc. 

Just try to remember how she undergo all the troubles and sacrifice to make sure you be a successful human you are today. For those who still have your mom please do appreciate her deeds to you. She may be a little bit nagging for time to time, but all her nagged is a beautiful advice which you gonna miss when she is gone one day. If your away from home, do keep in touch with your family as often as can be. Never abandon them your parents.

So, here i wish every women who is called mother, Happy Mother's Day to you...and of course to my beloved Mummy who keeps sheltered me and my family from neither daily sunny nor rainy day. Thanks, Mummy and sorry for all my bad. I will try to be a good daughter to you. 

Happy Mother's Day. 

Why Malaysian unmarried?

Yesterday, i read on a very interesting news article on The Star online, the header said, "Survey: 60.4% men unmarried". What i really wanted to highlight a few interesting facts is: 

1. About 2.5 million Malaysian, aged 25 and above are unmarried.
2. There are more single men (60.4%) than women (30.6%).
3. The average age of of men marrying is 28 while women is 25.7. 
4. 44.7% men didn't marry due to financial problems.
5. 40% women because they have not found eligible suitors.

 for more information read this :

http://thestar.com.my/news/story.asp?file=%2F2012%2F5%2F9%2Fnation%2F11254423&sec=nation

or a summarize in the picture i manage to find as below... 

As the above facts from survey showed there is more men unmarried compared to women in Malaysia.

It goes along with a few point from the respondents answers "Why Malaysian unmarried?"

MEN

The main point or reason for men unmarried is financial problems. Why this occurs? Ok from my point of view is:

1. Men is being very extravagant, they use to show off their high tech gadgets. They need to save up for the future not only for himself but to the future family he is going to set up with. 
2. Men on courting stage is courting the wrong kinds of women. In this stage, the women might be a big money splendour, no point as it increasing the debt men already have and finally end up adding to the amount of the percentage of singleness to men.  
3. We hardly see men in the tertiary education level like in University. Hence, i believe most of the men work as the lower post in the working world. Eventually they don't have a very high pay to be save to.
4. Men should stop using credit card as they will lost control will buying this and that without realizing.
5. High living cost making men goes in debt, as earning is not enough for living.

WOMEN

While for the women main reason is no suitable candidates. Why? Again is just my opinion.

1. Women is being too choosy. They want financial stable and handsome men. As you see most of the men is having financial problem so definitely the women will turn to no suitable men.
2. No men want them or hardly meet any men. Social cycle is too small or too introvert.
3. Women are more financial stable, and work as most higher post in working world, as they get to tertiary education compared to most men. Eventually causing men do not dare to approach women. 
4. They depends too much on men financial support during courting causing men to have financial problem.
5. They are lack of trust to men, as men is easily changed heart. Women needs faithful and reliable men in taking the duties as husband and father to their child. Women need men who can share duty on house chore, which most men won't have. 
6. They are lack of confidence as men seek for young, nice figure and pretty girl, which most asian women don't have.

Conclusion:

"Each [one] has his own gift from God, one has this gift, another has that." 
1 Corinthians 7:7

(^_^)v 

just be happy no matter you are in what kind of condition. 

《寂寞同盟》Laws of Attraction theme song

This is the opening theme song in 寂寞同盟 or Laws of Attraction drama.

The title of the song is 《寂寞出口》 sang by Victor 李俊潔 with Meeia 符瓊音.

Below this is the lyric to the song. To me it is so meaningful.

Note: ♥ here means Love...:)

男：                                                       Boy:                                             

想 看清那爱的脸孔                              Wanna see the face of ♥

话题一点就能懂                                   Little topic also can be understand                        

如果能猜透 你的梦 我就不会词穷     If knows your dream, will not stumped

女：                                                       Girl:

想 要把爱紧握手中                              Wanna grip hold of ♥

可是当越在乎 它就更容易失控          But the urge for it will easier lost it

终于翻起 暗用                                      Finally used to in darkness

男：无力卷入爱换爱                           Boy: Inability to involve in exchange ♥ for ♥ 

合： 对对碰的漩涡                              Both: Right touch will turn on the swirl               

男：                                                       Boy:

我只想把我的感动                               I wanna put my feeling

分一半到你心里的天空                       Share half to your sky of heart

没收 所有的难过                                  To confiscation all your sadness

寂寞也能做 最好的朋友                      Loneliness all can do best friend

女：                                                       Girl:

我会好好过每秒钟                               I'll make good use of every 2nd

被疼爱是恩宠                                       ♥ is grace

感谢你最后                                           Thank you for your final 

选择陪我走到最后                                choice to accompany me till the end

让寂寞有了出口                                   Let loneliness have ways out 

男：                                                       Boy:

你不知道 （女：从不知道）              You don't know (Girl: Never know)

命中注定那个 一直默默为你守候      Destiny that has been quietly waiting for you

女：                                                       Girl:

你不知道 （男： 我不知道）             You do't know (Boy: I don't know)

找了很久很久 属于我 的拥抱             Looking for a long, long time my hug

合： 这次觉不放掉                              Both: This perception will never let go

My Favourite is 感谢你最后 选择陪我走到最后 & 命中注定那个 一直默默为你守候.

Hatred...

This is some very nice words meant to be remembered and practice in our lifetime. Is adapted from the  Media Corp Singaporean drama named Breakout. Is at the few last episode before to the ending. 

Notes: F = female aka Yang NianQing;  M = Male aka Situ DongChen; the highlighted wording is the most important word for our life. 

Do enjoy as there is the movie clip beneath of this dialogue. 

F: Do you have a lot of hatred? If you hadn't been jailed and stripped of your lawyer's licence, you'd be rich and famous now. So you must be filled with hatred.

M: Yes. I'm so overcome by hatred that I can't sleep at night. The feeling doesn't subside as time goes by. On the contrary, it gets stronger.

F: Then you should have left me to my fate to assuage your hatred.

M: Hmm...If I succeed in getting my revenge, will that really assuage my hatred? Perhaps. Or perhaps it will create a new source of misery and hatred. :)

Have you ever seen such a sky as far as you can remember?

F: No.

M: The fact is, such a sky is always there. Just lift your head and you will see it. But the trouble is we won't even do so. And even if we do lift our heads we still won't see it. Because there are far too many things blocking our view. If I hadn't lost everything, I'd be a rich and famous lawyer by now. And perhaps I would never sit here in the setting sun and lift my head to look at this sky. Providence is fair. When you lose something you will gain back in other ways. I've lost fame and fortune. But I've gained a sky. :)

Come, let's enjoy our fried rice in the setting sun. I'm sure it's something you've never tried before.

F: Situ DongChen, you don't hate anymore?

M: I'm trying not to, but it's not easy. I need to look at the sky and the fallen leaves more. Speaking of which, I have to thank Zhou JieMing.

            (Below this is the part of the drama that i trimmed...from Youtube....is in Mandarin speaking with English subtitle ) 

Destination

Sometimes life is like this saying "你看我好， 我看你好". 

But do they know that behind my smile there is some hidden sorrow deep down in my heart. So is others people smiling faces too. Actually there is nothing to be envious about. 

Different people having different life path. Some people have to undergo the long path (walking), went through the hard rock of climbing, barrier awaiting ahead them. While some just need to under went through the short-cut (flight), which is simpler and easier path. But both reach the same destination as well. Is doesn't really matter how you get to the destination. The main point is you will pick up some valuable value or morale lesson along the travelling path. That is what making you an awesome person, unique in every sense every way. 

This is what life is mainly about, be it in marriage or work. Is the matter of the way you travelled, the timing and your effort you put into it...

To crack some jokes with this point of view is:
I can't run cause I am a fatty girl, wanna take up flight but unaffordable, wanna drive but don't have a car, so end up I'm using walking, that why is a little bit slow compared to other. But don't you think that slow and steady win the race.

Though i can't denial is a bit tired and something causing me to give up but i believe there is some good lesson to be learned. So c'mon let's be brave to walk up this life path. 加油！加油！

Labour's Day

April 2012 is gone...and May is here today. Today is also a Public Holiday for those Labourer/Worker to have a nice holidaying after a long working year. Is just like letting the worker to recharge it human battery either in mentally or physically to prepare for a longer work after that. (My very own understanding :) )

So since today is a holiday, what am i doing? Doing nothing. Okay not going to say much since all is so blue today. Is kinda sad today. But i don't wanna spoilt it in my blog. 

So just to cut thing short, Happy Labour's Day to all out there...i wish i am happy too...:(