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Thursday, May 10, 2012

Why Malaysian unmarried?

Yesterday, i read on a very interesting news article on The Star online, the header said, "Survey: 60.4% men unmarried". What i really wanted to highlight a few interesting facts is: 
  1. About 2.5 million Malaysian, aged 25 and above are unmarried.
  2. There are more single men (60.4%) than women (30.6%).
  3. The average age of of men marrying is 28 while women is 25.7
  4. 44.7% men didn't marry due to financial problems.
  5. 40% women because they have not found eligible suitors.

 for more information read this :


or a summarize in the picture i manage to find as below... 
As the above facts from survey showed there is more men unmarried compared to women in Malaysia.
It goes along with a few point from the respondents answers "Why Malaysian unmarried?"

MEN
The main point or reason for men unmarried is financial problems. Why this occurs? Ok from my point of view is:
  1. Men is being very extravagant, they use to show off their high tech gadgets. They need to save up for the future not only for himself but to the future family he is going to set up with. 
  2. Men on courting stage is courting the wrong kinds of women. In this stage, the women might be a big money splendour, no point as it increasing the debt men already have and finally end up adding to the amount of the percentage of singleness to men.  
  3. We hardly see men in the tertiary education level like in University. Hence, i believe most of the men work as the lower post in the working world. Eventually they don't have a very high pay to be save to.
  4. Men should stop using credit card as they will lost control will buying this and that without realizing.
  5. High living cost making men goes in debt, as earning is not enough for living.

WOMEN
While for the women main reason is no suitable candidates. Why? Again is just my opinion.
  1. Women is being too choosy. They want financial stable and handsome men. As you see most of the men is having financial problem so definitely the women will turn to no suitable men.
  2. No men want them or hardly meet any men. Social cycle is too small or too introvert.
  3. Women are more financial stable, and work as most higher post in working world, as they get to tertiary education compared to most men. Eventually causing men do not dare to approach women. 
  4. They depends too much on men financial support during courting causing men to have financial problem.
  5. They are lack of trust to men, as men is easily changed heart. Women needs faithful and reliable men in taking the duties as husband and father to their child. Women need men who can share duty on house chore, which most men won't have. 
  6. They are lack of confidence as men seek for young, nice figure and pretty girl, which most asian women don't have.
Conclusion:
"Each [one] has his own gift from God, one has this gift, another has that." 
1 Corinthians 7:7

(^_^)v 

just be happy no matter you are in what kind of condition. 

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